Arise Like A Phoenix

These are a friendly reminder I have to give myself daily.

7 Things you are not responsible for

1. Other people’s happiness – if people want to be let them be happy I am only in control of my own happiness.
2. Making other people understand your choice – let them be confused I’m the only one that needs to understand my choices.
3. Managing someone else’s emotions – let them feel the way they feel I can’t control it anyway.
4. Proving your worth to someone – let them be surprised when they find out they underestimated me.
5. Meeting everyone else’s expectations – let them be disappointed in me I only need to meet my own expectations.
6. Rescuing people from their problems – let them learn from life like I did. I am not Captain save a Hoe.
7. Managing everyone and everything around me – let them take care of themselves. I’m a hot mess and I manage to do that they should to.